Yup, and long-term monogamy is much more challenging than seduction.

If we were a bunch of jocks this wouldn't be questioned...

But on a computer games forum im sure you'll find plenty of people who find seduction far more challenging than monogamy...

For one monogamy just requires not doing something... seduction requires at the very least confidence and personality... then looks and money are the real hitters...

I have successfully practiced monogamy over quite a few months.... never quite managed seduction...