You missed my central point both countries interests conflict with the others long term interest
I also acknowledged straight off in my post that not wanting to be surrounded was Moscows central plan.
US Russian relations are still going to be based on mutual distrust which is kept in bounds as it always has been by mutual annihilation.
Your assertation that you can only poke the Bear so long works both ways Russia can only play at the bully as long as it has a big stick and it can only afford the stick by selling oil and gas to Europe. Russia may get some short term advantages by following these plans but eventually the bullied gets fed up calls the bluff and finds it was all just bluster. Hence the real reason for intervention in Georgia inserting complient governments in the region prevents all sorts of long term pipeline projects etc.
The Cold War may be over but the politics will as always be about the cash as it always really has been.
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