Advice on an akward situation

[Sigurd]

If thy right hand offend thee, cut it off.

You should have cut that woman out of you life when it began to sour way back when. You or your family don't need this burden.

I have started to cut stuff from my life which have bugged me for years. I.e. out-of work positions, voluntary stuff. Anything that puts a weight on your shoulders which do not involve your livelihood (income) or your close family are really just unwanted burdens. You don't need them and they will only shorten your life.