Should I?

**pevergreen** · 10-20-2009, 23:31

Originally Posted by Philipvs Vallindervs Calicvla

It sounds to me like she is no longer the gilr you love, and you are still in love with the memory.

I've often felt that myself, but...I just don't know.

Shes getting better. She's (within the last week or two) started to quit smoking and has stopped the drugs.

That's the best way to put it.

**Caius** · 10-21-2009, 00:10

Go to another country. Seriously.

**Samurai Waki** · 10-21-2009, 00:34

Originally Posted by pevergreen

I've often felt that myself, but...I just don't know.

Shes getting better. She's (within the last week or two) started to quit smoking and has stopped the drugs.

That's the best way to put it.

You're looking at this from the wrong angle... Who do you think you deserve? And who is going to be the one whose there if you're going through a rough patch?

Food for thought, anyways.

**pevergreen** · 10-21-2009, 01:05

In answer to your two questions:

Neither.

Both.

**Craterus** · 10-21-2009, 01:10

If you're so desperate not to give up on the ex-girlfriend, get back with her. You'll know soon enough if it's going to work or not (by the sounds of it, no) and it'll also give the other girl time to 'grow up' a bit to make the age gap less...controversial.

Don't let yourself get taken advantage of though. Ex-girlfriend sounds like a drama queen who always needs some crisis to be going on, it might seem noble playing rescuer but don't get stuck in the role because it's difficult to get out of. Anyway, all I feel like writing on this.

**pevergreen** · 10-21-2009, 01:33

Shes lost all her friends as well now...

She caused me to fail high school...

I like her. Even though shes changed, its easy to see the old her there. Its beginning to win back. Plus...shes helped me...a lot. in the same way I/the backroom helped her.

The younger one also strongly reminds me of a girl I used to go out with, before I was on here. Different enough for it not to make me think I only like her because she reminds me of the other, but close enough that maybe I do.

Good fun.