I give up.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 10-08-2010, 03:19

Originally Posted by pevergreen

It comes up quite a lot in your posts, and it doesn't give a good impression of you. I'm sure you're no worse than any other kid your age (and probably me at the same age) but it isn't exactly a glowing recommendation for you.
Also, why are you getting so defensive? You make these threads and we comment on them, we aren't your mother or father, we aren't going to wipe your arse.

Its a bit hard for me to know what was said and what she was thinking. You offered to buy her ticket. That in itself is nothing, she is no obligated to spend time with you because of that, if you had of said (and you may have) that you wanted to go with her, and therefore buy her ticket, that would imply something from your side of the relationship, but she may not have thought that way and so you needed to make sure you were both on the same page. Sure, you can be a little pissed that she didn't 'hang' with you, but she didn't do anything wrong, she is a different person, with a different thought process than you.

defensive? because you keep saying that I'm over-emphasizing/talking too much about it.

She did agree to go with me. I didn't offer to buy her ticket until a few days after she already said she would go with me. I went to her house, she called me her date (which in and of itself doesn't mean anything admittedly), and we rode together, after she agreed to go WITH ME. I'd say she understood that we went together.

**Samurai Waki** · 10-08-2010, 03:38

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

defensive? because you keep saying that I'm over-emphasizing/talking too much about it.

She did agree to go with me. I didn't offer to buy her ticket until a few days after she already said she would go with me. I went to her house, she called me her date (which in and of itself doesn't mean anything admittedly), and we rode together, after she agreed to go WITH ME. I'd say she understood that we went together.

Even so, she agreed to go with you, not to be with you... and you're mixing the two up.

As Strike mentioned: Why be so upset over something so inconsequential?

You really shouldn't be losing any sleep over something so small, why make a mountain out of a mole hill? Rejection is a fact of life. As awesome as I am, I've been passed over for jobs and opportunities I thought I deserved... it happens, but if you let it get to you and affect you whose fault do you think it is? It's not their fault for not realizing your awesomeness, it's your fault. Some people just can't handle how cool I really am, and it's their loss not mine.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 10-08-2010, 04:08

so, agreeing to be my date, go with me, let me pay for her ticket, take pictures beforehand and shes the only one who didnt think it was a date date.....and she meant she would go with me, not be with me, despite the fact that I rode with her, so I really went with her? I think you're changing the intended meaning. we both knew what it meant, but she decided to go off and leave me by myself rather than even dance when I asked her, or at least talk to me.

**Samurai Waki** · 10-08-2010, 04:23

Originally Posted by Prussian Iron

so, agreeing to be my date, go with me, let me pay for her ticket, take pictures beforehand and shes the only one who didnt think it was a date date.....and she meant she would go with me, not be with me, despite the fact that I rode with her, so I really went with her? I think you're changing the intended meaning. we both knew what it meant, but she decided to go off and leave me by myself rather than even dance when I asked her, or at least talk to me.

Not at all. It's a non-binding contract, she didn't agree to do anything with you other than go (and even if she did sign a contract that she'd go and hang out with you the whole time it would still be against her Constitutional Rights) and therefore she's free to do whatever she wants... leave you in the dust even. I'm only using this as an example, because even under the law she's in the right. A rose by any other name, is still a rose; love it, hate it... there's nothing you can do about it. Move on.

**a completely inoffensive name** · 10-08-2010, 05:16

Holy crap man, ***** more.

**Megas Methuselah** · 10-08-2010, 07:30

I was used by a girl before, but not out of money. She just wanted to get in my pants.

Life can be unfair sometimes, I know.

**Skullheadhq** · 10-08-2010, 13:31

Originally Posted by Megas Methuselah

I was used by a girl before, but not out of money. She just wanted to get in my pants.

Lies.

**Louis VI the Fat** · 10-08-2010, 14:35

I too have been used by women before!!

Just last month! I only agreed to take them out. But Vanessa and Frida, the two eightteen year old Swedish girls, assumed it meant I agreed to a sex date with them.

It was absolutely dreadful! Frida, the blond chesty one, took advantage of my advanced state of inebriation to get into my pants, while Vanessa, the redhead, tore off her *censored* then reached out her *censored* and *censored* my *censored* .

Awful.

**Prussian to the Iron** · 10-08-2010, 20:03

Originally Posted by Wakizashi

Not at all. It's a non-binding contract, she didn't agree to do anything with you other than go (and even if she did sign a contract that she'd go and hang out with you the whole time it would still be against her Constitutional Rights) and therefore she's free to do whatever she wants... leave you in the dust even. I'm only using this as an example, because even under the law she's in the right. A rose by any other name, is still a rose; love it, hate it... there's nothing you can do about it. Move on.

okay whatever. I'm well within the realm of reasonability in believeing she would do something other than leave me, as you put it, in the dust. now you're starting to sound like a lawyer; yah, its not a contract or anything binding obviously, but why would she agree to go with me (before I offred to buy a ticket) if she intended on leaving me alone? think logically, not lawfully.

**pevergreen** · 10-09-2010, 06:15

Going to an event and accompanying the person throughout are different.

If she wanted to be with you, she would have stuck around.

A girl doesnt like you. Get over it. Be thankful you havent encountered anything bad yet.

**Hax** · 10-09-2010, 11:27

Lol, I'm the pretty boy here, not you. Ain't my fault, bro.

What the heck has happened in your youth that you must constantly remind everyone of how handsome you are. I think you used to be very lonely. Want to make a thread about it?

**Moros** · 10-09-2010, 13:37

think logically, not lawfully.

Oh boy! Big mistake. Don't try to follow a woman's 'logic'. Though they sometimes may claim to know what it is and to have it. Lets be frank, logic is a man's thing. Like beer and football. Women just don't get it.