I give up.

[Samurai Waki]

so, agreeing to be my date, go with me, let me pay for her ticket, take pictures beforehand and shes the only one who didnt think it was a date date.....and she meant she would go with me, not be with me, despite the fact that I rode with her, so I really went with her? I think you're changing the intended meaning. we both knew what it meant, but she decided to go off and leave me by myself rather than even dance when I asked her, or at least talk to me.

Not at all. It's a non-binding contract, she didn't agree to do anything with you other than go (and even if she did sign a contract that she'd go and hang out with you the whole time it would still be against her Constitutional Rights) and therefore she's free to do whatever she wants... leave you in the dust even. I'm only using this as an example, because even under the law she's in the right. A rose by any other name, is still a rose; love it, hate it... there's nothing you can do about it. Move on.