Men are visual creatures. We like the way those we find attractive look. Gay men are often the same, being far more fixated by physiques than women. It is a fact. deal with it.

Why are women not more lambasted for judging men on their successes (money and power) - often explained away that they find men without focus less attractive. Apparently this is fine to dismiss someone on a facet of their perceived personality, but to make such a call on their physique is wrong.