40 lashes for 75 Year Old Woman

[Xiahou]

Married outside the Church (a Dutch Reformed girl), then (gasp!) divorced, then married again outside the Church (a Baptist), then divorced, then married a reformed Morman girl - all whilst professing a dis-inclination to believe a need for Savior-ism, in writing, to Rome.

Either I am :a:an excommunicated fornicating apostate, or :b:an insignificant single dude who has never been officially married. Rome says :a:, sez Padre Julio, my local priest (and I agree).

Weird how ex-commun-ication happens more on married stuff than theological stuff, huh?

What did they send you a letter? I don't know all the rules, but marriages to non-Catholics are often considered non-sacramental in nature. You can't receive the sacrament of marriage more than once(unless a spouse dies), but if you never received it in the first place....

I guess, I'm just wondering how you know that you're excommunicated....