As for not getting PMs, if you are not on this list: https://forums.totalwar.org/vb/showt...ayers-database people generally won't contact you, as plently of people don't want to be contacted.
Its true, only some people are congratulated, normally the person or few people that secured the victory. In the last two games, I survived something like 3 weeks after my two mafia partners died on day 2 and 3. In the other game, after having a few rounds of fun, I took control of the town and won the game that night phase. I got a few 'good jobs' but no one will remember it in a weeks time.
I've played more games than anyone else in the gameroom, hosted 13 mafia games, several non mafia games, and very rarely have I not been in the top percentage for post counts for a game. But I'm never remembered, never congratulated. Never nominated for a gameroom award, never included when discussion goes to 'best players'.
But to leave over that? I know we would welcome you back, but its up to you Husar. You're a nice guy.
Here is the current game, if you want to join. We'd be glad to have you.
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