Thanks, that made me smile.
It's also good advice.
I'm leaving her alone, it was the right choice four years ago - it's the right choice now.
Such is the way of things.
As to the "e-stalking" bit. Yeah, it's the facebook profile, looking at is is voyeuristic (but then I'm fairly sure she must have looked at mine in the past, but not recently). Down that road, however, lies madness and fantasies of twitching curtains.
Anyway, I'm all better now (pretty much).
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